February 2018 Bootleg @ Katie’s House with Viviane, Shelley, Marie, Liz, Mary, & Karen S
– we missed the others (such movers & shakers they be)
So. We had our normal chatty preliminaries. But the tinier details were swept away on a current of Big Things Happening in Real Time. LIFE was interrupting life.
- We started with an upbeat interruption of Grand Celebratory proportions. Mary reported on her mom’s 100th Birthday Party. She shared the oh-so-clever postcard invitations, goodie bag graphics, pink kitty party ears, and happy anecdotes from the day. Such a great gathering of so many lives – all for one wonderful lady.
- Then there were the phone calls and texts. Most of us got at least one; this is normal. Yet one family was having a bigger case of Life. Real-time angst over roommates, job, and general I’m-still-new-at-adulting issues that demanded multiple cycles of Mom Input (or maybe just listening) to manage. Not a problem for us, but it did impact conversational continuity for the digitally attached mom. Life on the daily sometimes gets messy. #momstotherescue
- Marie reported that Robert is deployed ‘somewhere remote,’ where apparently there’s no good coffee (among other things). Understandably, she’s finding his deployment (which some may say is to defend life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness) weighs on her mind as she goes about each day. To alleviate & support, she’s asked us to bring care package items for Robert & his mates to the next Bootleg meeting. Details TBA.
- Then the sad news of a Clearbook Lane neighbor’s impending passing was shared (after a 2-year but not-announced illness). Several Bootleggers even left early to sit at the hospital with the husband that night. It was one of the ill neighbor’s last, so that kind community effort was well-timed, for sure. Sometimes the end of life has its own slow and then sudden schedule.
- Except when somebody pre-empts that schedule. Another Bootlegger received a text from her young-adult child about a recent roommate’s suicide of the night/day before. It was a shock to all (of the person’s loved ones, mainly. But also to us). And a hard moment for our Bootleg mom to not be able to comfort her own in situ (due to distance). Thankfully, there were others there who could.
- This incident reminded others of suicide tragedies, too.
So. The book pick was beyond apropos since life truly interrupts life.
Karen S. picked Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford because…
It was on her To Be Read pile & coincidentally (well, maybe the fact it’s not a 50-pound tome helped) she grabbed it on her way out for a business trip to…Seattle, the book’s primary setting.
Before the Meeting: Katie was struggling to read the distinctly wrought medical scenes, so she asked Marie if cancer remained a theme throughout the book. Marie replied, ‘No, don’t worry. And it gets much better once they’re in the internment camp.’
Um… Try finding that last sentence uttered or printed anywhere else in the Universe.
Marie meant there’s less emphasis on cancer, which is true. Yet if you’re sensitive to the topic don’t read this book now (its lingers through the final pages).
- good writing! we liked it!
- so rich with the mélange of cultures, blues/jazz, school yard bully scenarios played out against (and because of) WWII atrocities, American heart vs citizenship vs loyalties, small-minded business moves vs long-term business goals, romance vs traditional marriage, scholarshipping vs school of hard knocks
- alternating timelines (’42 and ’86) worked quite well in terms of flow and engagement; hard to see first-hand the older Henry’s (& Keiko’s) lost chances as they play out in his teen years
- interment camp realities seemed well-described; regarding earlier ‘it gets much better’ there statement: it seems that at least this one in Idaho (seemingly) managed to allow families to re-create lives (school, outings, Girl Scouts) in some fashion…
- effectively portrayed such HUGE themes (parenting, political moves, large swaths of history, citizenship both heartfelt and legal, etc.) through the small actions of two teens and their small cohort >>> well done! also, this could be a middle school & up reader, for sure
- we are so accustomed to thinking of San Francisco when China Town is mentioned, that we all kept having to recalibrate to being in Seattle
- so much time passed for Henry without Keiko (and vice versa), yet they both lived full lives with much to be proud and happy about…so lovely that they found each other again…life circled back for them – how rare and delightful
- we all liked the new discoveries Henry’s son was making thanks in part to his fiancé’s impetus (she’s a keeper!); finally, Henry figures out something about transitioning roles/seasons as a parent…Sheldon and Keiko’s parents planted seeds
- Sheldon! the whole night club scene was awesome; his final message to ‘fix it’ was nicely done on all levels
- the scene where the news and joyous noise of the war ending sweeps over the hills and consumes everyone as it goes is written gorgeously; Sheldon’s musical homage to the empty corridors is fitting, too
- the preserved history of the Panama Hotel itself and its basement contents is very cool, esp. since it seems to be true (the Tea Room, too)
- we agreed it really was Keiko at the Panama Hotel witnessing Henry’s proposal (not just a writerly illusion/allusion): the entire novel’s angst (at least the relationship part) was encapsulated there
- So, did Henry’s and Keiko’s lives get in the way of their life? Yes. And no. For example, Henry would not have this son if things had gone another way.
Next Meeting: Marie’s House, most likely the last Monday or Tuesday of March
Next Book, Katie’s pick:
Juniper: The Girl Who Was Born Too Soon by Kelley & Thomas French
Sneak Preview: Karen S already announced her next pick (yes, that’s approx. 10 months ahead of time). Title not recalled (sorry). She also will have the author as a guest to the meeting. It’s a thing she (Karen S) does.
January 2018 @ Karen S’s House w/Mary, Liz, Marie, Sue, Kitty, Shelley, & Yours Truly
- SPEED PREP CHAMPIONSHIP STATUS – Karen S. continues to hold the title after arriving home 10 minutes before Go Time and barely batting an eyelash. It’s all in the prep work and established routine. Delish stew! Another win for Karen S!
- BEST ENTRANCE EVER: Shelley in Viking helm with ‘Ride of the Valkyrie’ blasting
- BEST WINE SAVE EVER: Kitty (ahem…finally) arrives with white wine, but top is misaligned and won’t unscrew. After several great minds (ahem) & rubber-gloved hands attempt feats of strength, Karen S. operates successfully – with the $hitty knife – to ‘slice’ open the perforations. Happiness ensues.
Successful wine bottle surgery. Don’t try this at home (unless it’s Karen’s home).
- 4 dogs, count ’em: 4 (good night to miss, Karen C). Well, you can’t count the littlest; she’s hiding upstairs. And Maverick’s glued to Shelley as she fusses and photos him all night. The other 2 are on floor, ball, and bark patrol. Dog-sitting is what happens to Karen S. when she sends both Daniel (+ all her men) to Montana and Kelsey + Grand Baby to KY. Actually, it first happens upon sending Daniel to college… Liz had cane at the ready, but she’s actually a dog person now (#Boomer).
- Fashionable, ‘hot executive’ attire vs. business clothes. Discuss. Or just go to Shelley’s shop to find ideal-fitting options.
- Mary’s Michael is happy, esp. when carrying 10-foot PVC pipes through Manhattan. Catherine is happily ensconced with a roommate (cousin of a friend, yay! #connections #vetted) in Chicago. Loooong commute to current client, but otherwise fine. IKEA furniture worked; Mary’s extra day (snow cancellation of flight) got things started. “First, you label!” Says Mary, always…
- IKEA Hack: Promise to just do the step you are on and it all works out beautifully. Most fun is assembling ONLY with the hex wrench (do you have the right sizes?). If you must, skip it and buy ‘generic’ from a resale shop.
- Sue wants to retire. For the zillionth time – we support her. PICK A DATE, already! Feb. 2nd: Florida grandbaby birthday & maybe new property fun. Dogs seem healthy as can be – still!
- Kitty moves in <10 days to a one BR apt. in the BEST location in Bethesda. Will she and Barry survive the tiny space living? Work on the house, list it by March 1st, and hopefully buy something in Annapolis soon.
- Book Donations: WJ needs them & takes boxes. KP Library ditto on need, not on boxes. NIH Patient Library would love actual CLEAN ones (but too few understand what the word ‘clean’ means).
- Liz’s boys each have a favorite part of Mary Poppins – how practically perfect of them. Megs is an A student again & working PT for her bro at Sysarc (you know, the place with the really cool office & genius pit). Hip is better, but a ways to go. Work is a #(%storm of hiring/firing – she can see the fun stuff, just blurred behind the dust not quite settled on other debacles. Does this constitute a Failed Retirement?
- We’re pretty sure Shelley’s kids & life are fine. And she’s well accessorized (see above) and looks great, as usual. Nothing’s confirmed though, as she’s quite focused on making memes of Maverick.
- Marie was in San Diego – sans cool black jeans but also sans the flu (after a wise 4 days of pre-travel recovery). It was fantastic from A to Z – girlfriend, location, her welcome, Robert’s happiness, the weather (‘only’ 65, but it was 6 OR 5 here), and event the travel. Margaret says Robert will marry only when GF is pregnant. WHAT?? Odd trend: weddings are so ‘hard/grand/pricey,’ this is the ‘solution.’ Not just Robert, but ‘everyone.’ Yeesh.
- Katie’s birthday dinner outing odyssey: Silver Diner cuz it’s yummy. [Side bar: ‘Silver’ is overpriced says the Peanut Gallery] and mostly b/c restaurant Week & its extension hindered the big trip to Barrel & Crow. It’ll happen. Bootleg Birthday cake (with an icing book!). Thanks, All! Tip: DO go to Jenny Cakes for more of the same yumminess. Don’t necessarily consult with Liz on flavor of finishing mixes… #overwhelmed (for the record: final result was perfect).
- Other books to try: My Life with Bob; any others? Katie seeking ‘good nonfiction’ on Ghandi (she just saw the movie). Somewhat more current movies were discussed by those who viewed them: 3 Billboards in XYZ, MO; The Post; and [Something Else]
Katie chose Norse Mythology by Neil Gaiman because:
- He writes so well and typically puts an intelligent, off-kilter twist on everything.
- Family connections, so curious about how Norwegian history/culture survived and/or was conveyed via the myths.
- I read some of Snori Sturlurson’s versions and it was a bit of a slog -wondered if it was the translation or just me.
- I like the Justice League, Thor, etc. sci-fi movies & wanted a comparison, esp. with the upcoming release of Ragnarok.
with My Reading Arc (only b/c I made notes before) & Gaiman interview bits:
- 6 of 8 read all (Karen S. even drove to Olney for her copy!). One read “67%” after deciding it was survivable to go more than halfway. One read none percent (but she still knows the author, of course….).
- First 30 pages: This is tedious and lacks rhythm. Bootleg is going to kill me.
- The glossary was great! Learned so much about word origins. Pretty cool how so much lasted from the misty past. But do all the weekday names really track (e.g. Sunday)?
- Bonus for word lovers: Shelley’s pronunciation guy (link below).
- Am I missing something or are the Norse gods a bunch of dolts who depend on the apparently smarter elves and esp. the dwarves? And what about the clearly more-powerful giants?
- Why does everyone keep believing Loki?
- Man, is Thor dumber than we ever thought.
- Cool to know that Loki is really Odin’s blood brother.
- Or maybe… Do the gods just hang out ‘like normal folks’ until their true selves are actually needed? Cuz it’s more fun or relaxing that way?
- Great reading this after reading Gaiman’s American Gods. So much more makes sense and that book seems even better now.
- Some discussion on if these myths DO or DO NOT explain how nature works or came to be. After a few examples (water, volcanoes, etc.) we seemed to tilt toward YES, the myths have a consistent thread of explaining nature.
- This is not to be overshadowed, however, by the preponderance of 10-year-old boy potty humor. Examples galore. Oh, goody.
- What is it that today’s oh-so-hip/sophisticated Norwegians & their somewhat recent/modern generations find so compelling about these myths and gods? Do they evoke pride or other positive vibes? They just don’t stack up – character-wise – to Johnny Appleseed, John Henry, Paul Bunyan, etc. Not to mention other world myths clearly conveying wisdom or morals. And narrative flow is stilted (is that just eons of translation tics?). [Related note from the Gaiman interview (link below]: These myths don’t explain Nature. They do tell who the Vikings were, the original storytellers. Told in a setting of extremes (light/dark, feast/starve, party/kill). Vikings have ‘good death’ (battle & Valhalla…daily valor) or ‘bad death’ (age, birth, illness, weakness & Hel’s kingdom…gloom). Peaceful co-existence and endings don’t exist in the Norge of 1500 years ago.]
- Reads quickly. Or at least you can set it down feeling progress was made. Easy to get back in, even after pausing a bit. Didn’t call to be read obsessively, but certainly picked up flow and appeal by ~1/3 of the way through. Then ended with a bang.
- Almost done: Still not sold on literary niceties, but overall, there is insight and commentary on foibles of man as reflected by goofy, greedy, violent, illogical gods. But still seems less than godlike.
- Some discussion on if females kept getting short end of the stick. Loki always at the center of trouble, so in some ways the answer is yes simply because of him. But consider Freya, the giants. So maybe not.
- Seems to be equal opportunity for highs and lows across male/female and different levels of godliness. So that’s good, I guess.
- Loki. He’s terrible. Is he created that way and has no choice or does he do it because he likes it? Or is it the only way he sees clear to the ultimate power grab? Are they forgiving him between episodes? Forgetting (how much time passes for them anyway)? Or biding time & tolerating him – as in, better the devil you know than the one you can’t see (butchered metaphor…deal with it).
- LOKI – Why do they tolerate him? Why so many chances? So much power? Is it intentional or lack of ANY short-term memory? There’s nothing redeeming about him…is that his Giant side or just Loki? Is he just a ‘poetic/mythic device’ so “they” can create absurd adventure tales that are very memorable? So many questions.[Interview note: Movie version is this somewhat appealing god of Mischief/Evil/Tricksiness. ‘Real version’ has more layers; thinks he’s cleverer than he is; gets gods into trouble all the time; a blowhard sneak who has to back peddle a lot; gets darker & darker]
- Nordic people had LOTS of dark, so maybe they just wanted crazy plot twists. As in, trying to get a rise or a gasp out of listeners in the murky dark. This is far different than trying to teach lessons.
- Also, our centers don’t align. Their norm is ‘boring violence’ (going to Hel) or ‘fun violence’ (going to Valhalla). That mindset must create a different lens than our for appreciating/understanding these myths. (Well, except for 10 yo boys)
- Finally starts to read like a novel in the last fifth. [Interview note: Gaiman wrote the stories out of order, as the muse struck. After writing Ragnarok story he realized there was a novel structure & he re-ordered accordingly.]
Karen S. picked is Hotel on The Corner Of Bitter And Sweet by Jamie Ford
- Marie is a LIBRARIAN, for goodness sake… Listen to her (IF you can hear her…without a Viking helm hearing horn) when she names the book’s author.
NEXT MEETING: TBA (Kitty may switch months with somebody since she’s moving)
November 2017 Nobody Hosts Meeting @ Liz’s
– A recovery set back…we switched from Chinese restaurant to delivery at her home
– Karen C., Marie, and Viviane were missed (to manage their family priorities).
- Katie brought electric tea kettle and Chinese green tea to keep with the original (location) plan. Mary brewed it up ever-so-nicely.
- Oh, dang it! most of us forgot our homework – a title for the January Read draw. Mad searching on Liz’s (weird, slightly uncooperative) laptop and other phones
- This set up various sidebar conversations & levels of focus that lasted until we sat down, so not all interactions will be noted.
- Also, Yours Truly took over ordering for everyone. There was some general head-nodding and calls of ‘chicken’ or ‘not too spicy’ with one definitive ‘my kids like Happy Families’ (not a philosophical statement, but a favorite menu item…& now, an appropriate blog post title), but the process again took away from general chatter recording. #excuses #legit
- Who watched Gilmore Girls & was it because your girls did? (Pretty much, yes). What other shows were family favorites? (a mixed bag)
- Liz’s Injury Recap: hip painkillers masked chronic back warning twinges >>> back pulled while making bed (proposal: that bed is dangerous; burn it). And, yes, she’s overdoing it as a general state of being.
- Sue’s Retirement Mansion in Florida – a few more details…the more we learn, the better it sounds. C’mon, Steve…get ready to retire soon.
- Mary’s Catherine moving to Chicago by January. Moving ‘everything’ in the car & driving her out. Oh, the fun.
- Karen S’s Christopher back from a NZ adventure. Harvey being fabulously Harvey.
- Some crazy boys (KS’s Daniel, Liz’s David, & anyone else from Bootleg DNA???) going Wild Boar Hunting somewhere in Appalachia #ofcourse (which state?) with a ‘responsible, adult’ guide. #ihearbanjoes
- Kitty’s house goes on the market in ~February. They’ve seen great options in the Annapolis area. Local goal for the work week: Bethesda digs within 2 blocks of Kitty’s office. All the better for Kitty to continue to NOT go out with the ‘hundreds of millenials’ she works with (and who continue to invite her).
- Katelyn finishing NYC Marathon (with Katie & Catherine & others) cheering her on. [Katie didn’t make the entrance lottery; she did her 26.2 race in DC the week prior.]
- Shelley making various funny comments all while madly trying to find ‘a Canada book’ for the January pick in honor of Kirstie staying in the Great White North (well, Toronto).
The Hearts of Horses by Molly Gloss
Katie picked it because:
- Volunteering at Gentle Giants triggered a Renaissance of All Things Horses for Katie.
- Didn’t want to read Horse Whisperer, Black Beauty, War Horse, or anything that dwells on the ugly. Horse Dancer by Jojo Moyes (Me Before You) seemed just a bit too chicklit for Katie & Bootleg.
- Just read The Summer Before the War by Simonson and …Horses is of a very similar era and focuses on similar yet very different kind of young women in a very opposite setting from The Summer... upper class Edwardian England. So the compare/contrast was a rich opportunity.
- Katie had just watched ‘Buck’ about the real horse whisperer, Buck Brannaman, and wanted more horse life & training insights like this (but couldn’t find any of his nonfiction books in the library).
- Everyone read at least most of it. Karen S. couldn’t get a copy in time but plans to read the copy she finally got. We did a pretty complete plot summary.
- Overall, thumbs up from everyone. Even Viviane made a point to share positive comments (after the meeting). It’s such distinct slice of American life and time. The ‘realness of real people’ struck all of us (in a manner akin to The Bartender’s Tale).
- Family dynamics & fortitude also reminded us of The Glass Castle and even more directly of Half-Broke Horses, both by Jeannette Walls.
- PHEW! (says Katie) – It was a huge risk doing a ‘horse book,’ esp. with Kitty sounding an email alarm about fearing a sobfest. But while this one did not shy away from harsh realities and how some so-called horsemen broke horses, it did a great job of staying with Martha’s methods and demeanor – esp. when sharing details and horse development
- We enjoyed how ~90% of the book had an easy, looping style of present, past, future – no rush to share details, but all attended to and accounted for (like Martha Lessen)
- The last bit just before she agreed to marry certainly was faster than the rest. Was this a page count thing? Or did it reflect Martha’s pattering heart or some other aspect of her transition to community & happy family life?
- Martha’s appearance, ‘style,’ goals, and book-loving ways = so appealing
- Horse how-to info very satisfying and inspiring; yet also not all prettied up or modernized. Ugly reality laced in (but not overwhelming)
- Great contrast to The Summer Before the War (several of us had read this independently of Bootleg); & similarities like women’s rights, patriotism, hardscrabble life of the un-rich, freedom from negative family, local politics, charming romance
- Tom/cancer- painfully accurate (Katie had to skip a lot); horrible and beautiful
- Riding the circle to train horses was a cool concept and also a great writer gimmick to bring in all the families
- Changing POV was good
- Eastern Oregon – ‘wild west’ is less wild than Martha wants, but still wild. Does this reflect Martha, too? She vows to never marry & seems rather rough, but she actually segues into community life and romance quite readily. She keeps her standards, but is somewhat surprisingly quick/quiet to acquiesce on some issues (esp. marriage & continuing to ‘ride out alone’).
- George & Louise Bliss, El Bayad, Will Wright, the old sisters Emma Adelaide & Aileen, Henry Frazer (beau), German family (Belgians over the cliff with wagon), Rumer (?) family (ptomaine poisoning & broken arm; drunk) – All these characters were well-liked (or thoroughly and appropriately disdained) by us. Their arcs were real. Dialogue was, too. Each brought out another facet of Martha and of life in that setting, time, place.
- Insights on medicine (cancer, doctor’s hours, awaiting help, birth/delivery) were distinct yet integral to plot and/or character development. (Yes, there was a birth, Liz). Such an interesting period of some knowledge, but mostly hardscrabble grit as a key part of the ‘healing’ process.
- Title okay, but did not really delve into the horses’ hearts – saw some good evidence, though of this (e.g. the German couples’ horses that had fallen off the road…no panic, strength, patience).
- Martha’s romance – really was sweet (even the rather obvious foreshadowing didn’t ruin it). The dance, the skating party & hike to Native Am art – all good scenes. But, did she enter too easily? Give up too many dreams? We think not and the ‘epilogue’ seems to confirm that it works out.
- Yours Truly must say so herself: Dessert was awesome. Fresh, triple chocolate brownies with 3 toppings choices: whipped cream, caramel sauce, and/or homemade maple icing (thx, Katelyn E). We all had it all. #yum #dangerous
- Picking the January Title
- Several cries of, “You all are going to be so mad if you pick mine!”
- Same exact pieces of paper (thx, Mary). But, wait! How do we fold them to be identical. One fold? Two? Origami (you’re so funny, Karen S.)?
- Pick #1: Mary selects. She passes it for another to read, but… ACK!!! Two papers are slotted together. Mary is vindicated; the multiple fold is in order.
- Pick #2: It’s Shelley’s pick! She’s happy! She’s worried! It’s so new, she knows nothing about it. Tension builds as Sue checks…it’s NOT in the library. Alas.
- Pick #3: All goes well. It’s Katie’s pick & she’s not even sure if it’s a full Gaiman story or an anthology of myths that have been Gaiman-ized. We all shall see… NORSE MYTHOLOGY by Neil Gaiman
- December: Liz had wanted to do a Bootleg Bookless Tea again. Her status may preclude this. So, we are awaiting a Last Minute Call (if she feels up to it). Also… for those of you who actually read these minutes… Katie could host a Tea. Comment or email, if this appeals.
- January: Date tbd. It seems Katie and Karen S. (host) need to decide on it. Anyone know when a winter storm is predicted to come?
Note: In Februrary, this post was inadvertently added as a page. It appears here now (11/1/17) as a correction to that error.
February 27, 2017 @ Kitty’s House w/Viviane, Karen S, Mary & Yours Truly
Life & Family news: Katie’s Dad continues the fight; Kitty’s sister’s son & daughter-in-law have twins by surrogate; Karen S Big Baby Boy in 2 months… L’chaim, everybody!
Oscars Chatter: dresses, jewelry, etc.
Kitty’s great uncle – portraitist; new book (so cool); fascinating art talk by Viviane… bonus: art class/samples by Viv (how colorful is YOUR white?)
Young Men & Fire by Norman MacLean
Karen S picked it due to coincidences:
– Christopher reading a lot about MT/fire watching
– CFO interview >>talked about Mann Gulch & this book
– She liked A River Runs Through It
- Oh, Norman, how we wish you could have lived to properly edit this
- long, draggy; REDUNDANCIES (with a few more reveals each time, yes, but the re-looping was so tiresome)
- MacLean was rather OBSESSED that his love of research drowned out his literary skills in this ‘draft’
- many descriptions of people & motivations were so excellent
- historical context (behind/beyond the event) was enlightening
- details like parachute design were edu-taining
SO… we turned to Literary Listography – My Reading Life in Lists
Randomly chose: “Historical Period I Vicariously Lived Through” (based on Bootleg reads & what we considered ‘eras,’ not just ‘settings’) –
- Year of Wonder (plague)
- Devil in the White City (World’s Fair & pre great CSI)
- In the Garden of the Beasts (Hitler rising)
- The Prize Winner of Defiance, OH (1950s wifery)
- The Help (pre Civil Rights)
- Nothing to Envy (North Korea, sadly still)
- Warm Springs (polio/iron lung transition)
- Elephant Company (humane training; WWI-WWII heroism)
- The Guernsey Literary & Potato Peel Pie Society (small scale WWII)
- The Color (NZ gold rush 2)
- The 19th Wife (est. cult of Mormonism)
- The Red Tent (Old Testament)
- The Dove Keepers (Masada)
- Memoirs of a Geisha (culture…is this an ‘era?’)
- Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress (Cultural Revolution)
- The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks (cusp of DNA discovery)
- [we ran out of time…]
October 2017 – Katie’s Meeting @ Liz’s House b/c Liz broke & we brought the party to her. Kitty, Marie, Sue, Mary, Shelley, & Yours Truly. We 7 missed everyone else. Also: Team Brennan duly setting up Halloween décor – even if Liz won’t be scaring anyone in 2017.
The Liz Report:
- Sparkly wedge shoes, a speedy exit from the Anthem, and ever-so-slightly uneven walking surface made for a Gravity Wins moment. Various contortions to avoid falling may have worsened the torque or impact. Lots of pain. Carried to the car.
- No ER, please…home. Several days of RICE and crutches. She definitely overdid it at work a few days despite intermittent stretches of feeling better. So, she made a doc appt. for the next week and she packed for the gang’s fall leaf peeping trip.
- Sadly, another trip interfered – thanks to crutch + foot + bed leg + more gravity. Another fall – wrenching, blinding, hip-searing, immediately immobilizing pain.
- This is when Liz’s constant refrain, ‘No, you don’t understand… I can’t do [xyz] because I’m in too much pain.’ started in earnest.
- EMTs NOT prepared to deal with her pain level, thirst, stairs, and more. Much hemming and hawing later, they ‘taco-ed’ her in a stretcher & off to Suburban.
- EXTREME pain not managed well at all in ER. A patronizing air about getting in the system and doing certain paperwork before discussing pain meds = bad, bad, bad. Liz persisted, doc gave some Rx. Scan taken, doc upped to Max Load Rx for pain.
- Waited all night for surgeon to mosey in… Tim trying to sleep in the chair…. Ugh. Surgical nurse pops in at 7:30 a.m. ‘READY!’ and Liz hasn’t spoken with surgeon yet. Tim at home. Flash forward – all players gathered, surgery commences.
- Diagnosis: hairline fractures from first fall (like the shell of a hard-boiled egg); ‘exploded’ hip joint from second fall
- Surgery was the one hour (easier-than-3-hours) version because small incision to use leverage/traction worked to realign femur + 3 screws in hip joint area.
- PT & OT + 6,000 other people showing up in her (private!) room at all hours. Some semi-useful. None the doctor. Most in a big rush. Timing food, meds, and actual therapies for best combined impact – not a thing on any treatment orders. But when the experienced PT shows up, confidence and positive options abound! The foot harness to move the leg! Realistic options for walking!
- Released earlier than expected (um…family’s in Baltimore helping David move). Home is good. Megs is FT caregiver. Bed in Apt. B is a very negotiable height. Padded chairs, a walker, PT visits to home & oh, yes – morphine. She’s on her way to getting ready to get ready to be better.
- Goal: ‘normal’ in 3 months.
Real Estate Report:
- Sue’s Florida Home! They close Thanksgiving weekend. North of Tampa, closer to Stephen than Stacy. 4 BR, 3 bath, a pool. All kinds of wonderful features. Let the home décor shopping begin (well, after they close)
- Kitty’s Moving! Yes, it’s a familiar story, but with some new tweaks. Already listed with friend realtor. Will rent a small apt. near 20895 for work. Goal to own a small house near Annapolis.
- Marie is hosting her ‘other’ niece. It’s been fun and upbeat.
- Basements rock. Even if you stuff too much junk into them. Sorry, parts of country that don’t have the pleasure. Earthquakes & high water table count as good excuses.
- Alana A (Parkwood realtor & resident) donated blood marrow over the summer & just heard her match (still anonymous via the registry) is ‘stable.’ Awesome.
Today Will Be Different by Maria Semple
Sue picked it because …Bernadette was so funny and she wanted something lighter than last month’s slog.
- Today’s understatement: We did not like Eleanor Flood. Some of us couldn’t even read the whole book because she was so ugh.
- Her day filled with angst-y, anti-social habits and flashbacks where she played the victim or drama queen to just about everything made most of us want to holler, “No, YOU don’t understand!” As in this is not how life works. Note: this use of the phrase is the polar opposite of Liz’s aforementioned campaign for comfort & care. [This could be some sort of irony or twist. Cuz, you know…we’re that literary book club in the ‘hood.]
- Some acquiesced to the idea that she had tiny glimmers of trying to do right. Or maybe she warranted a bit of empathy for making choices out of fear or depression. But then she’d just do something (or reveal an old something) that was thoughtless, selfish, etc. And… ugh
- Writing style was very readable. Witticisms were tight, astute…but just so barbed.
- Commentary on Seattle demographics added to humorous tone. At least we had that from …Bernadette.
- Why did her husband still love her? A testament to his faith… and maybe something we just don’t get to see of her.
- We all sighed over Timby. Don’t really want to read any sequel of his teen years.
- Book covers are covered with great praise from all points. Are these excerpts from the complete statements which reveal less sunny opinions? As in, “It’s a masterpiece [missing bit: of unpalatable narcissism]!”
- The last scene does offer a bit of hope/sweet relief. Maybe a lot of tomorrows later (not today) it will be better for Eleanor.
NEXT MEETING: November is hostess-free. So we’ll meet at a restaurant. Location & date TBD via email when Katie spreads word of her book pick.
September 24, 2017 @ Sue’s with Mary, Liz, Viviane & Katie (oh, and Charlotte, the spider); we missed the rest of you!
Car Talk – north
- It’s legal to travel with alcohol in closed containers (relevant info while using the Brennan Always-a-Party Bus
- The One-Thing-After-Another for Viviane’s Family Saga – good news: all are safe, many while driving her a bit nuts –in the best way possible! – while staying at her house. Saga includes escaping socialism, Miami hurricane, Mexico City earthquake, & a 3-year-old in need of peers (and maybe a light saber)
- The value of unpaid internships. This is becoming the new topic to replace Schoolitics and Poolitics. (sadly, nothing seems to replace actual politics)
- No, don’t get on Rt. 70 to get to Sue’s. Really. Stay left. LEFT.
- Some of us blatantly ignore or accidentally-then-on-purpose ignore club rule 11828 about bringing our own towels (Liz, Katie). Others go above & beyond by wearing her suit (Viv).
- Paperwork: Vivian taking the test to become a US citizen (almost ready!). Kirstie & Canadian residency/citizenship. David moving to Baltimore (a girl, the commute).
Chit Chat @ Sue’s
- The WEATHER. Perfect. Warm, Long-lasting, gorgeous melon-ish pink sunset. NOT shivering at hot tub time. Drop the mic.
- The FOOD. Sue not only provided a book-themed, yummy dinner of Indian cuisine, she did the same for appetizers. Such an array of dips and flavors, etc. She’s been charged with providing her menu (i.e. Wegman’s shopping list) so we can recreate and ‘save ourselves a trip to an Indian restaurant.’
- Kudos to Liz for getting her fulltime-4-days-a-week position (those MFA-type people are not good at math) voted in – just today.
- Sue & Steve almost got a Florida second home to rent then relocate in 1 year (Sue)/4 years (Steve); more house hunting to come. Kudos to Sue for reaching 30 years & I Can Retire Anytime status.
- champagne for all of the above (well, barely more than a thimble for Wimp Katie and of course fizzy juice of another sort for Cheapest Date Mary)
- Who’s reading what? A brief interlude while Sue put finishing touches on super-yum dinner. Biggest rave: Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. For those seeking some mental fluff-that’s-not-vapid: Talking as Fast as I Can by Lauren Graham
- We did not talk about the Redskins. Or whatever you choose to call them. No, we did not.
- Word choices, Part A – What’s the word for adult children? Offspring is too stuffy. Heirs just sounds silly. Son & daughter work, but not as one-word aggregates if you’re kids are boy & girl. Spanish: hijos (includes both genders); French: just don’t say enfants after they turn ~17.
- Word choices, Part B – Language-less children (deaf & isolated) who have learned language late in childhood & only have the verb ‘think’ are less capable at paper-based thinking tasks (e.g. comprehension, conclusions, inference) than those who also have words like ‘remember,’ ‘believe,’ ‘wonder,’ etc. So…having more words to think about thinking makes one a better thinker. Oh, the brain!
- Poetry sucks. Poetry is awesome – it can take you so many places. Bob Dylan to baseball and beyond. PSA: song lyrics are poetry.
- The Emmy’s – yada yada yada. Oh, and what WILL the Oscars do this year? There are no good movies – yet. The movie industy plot thickens..
- English is crazy. Here’s a post-meeting addition to acknowledge that fact (& fulfill a request. ‘The Chaos’ poem by Gerard Nolst Trenité http://ncf.idallen.com/english.html
Hot Tub re-cap – Overall – so nice to not be shivering!!! That giant spider going up & down & up & down will do no harm. Creepy yet elegant. It’s Charlotte, right? Tiki torches, color-changing lights, awesome water jets at all stations. Ahhhh. A nearby farm’s recent spreading of the manure pile to fertilize fields? Not so great. Physics lesson: the hot tub steam really helps to effervesce that aroma. #farmlife New neighbors – fencing in for goats, chickens, horses, and emus. That’s how they do it from South Africa.
THE BOOK: The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy
Viviane chose this book because Eva recommended it. All of us read (listened to) at least more than half. Only Viviane finished. The rest of us ran out of time (for the record – chasing your book from here to NC to the library actually does not count as an excuse; napping does) OR chose to stop b/c…
- It was just so dang bleak. And it was next to impossible to truly care about the characters – at least enough to want to read the full details of Sophie’s &/or everyone else’s demise
- No real plot. Well, not one with any pace or appealing rhythm. Yes, stuff happens, but it’s all at the end. And it requires slogging through some very, very dense and swirly and sloggy stream-of -consciousness from pretty much all characters.
- Don’t care how somebody eats a mango the 39th time… As in: the blurb is so much better than the ‘agonizing uncoiling’ of events.
- GORGEOUS writing abilities.
- Poetic and crystal clear in small spots
- Such clever wordplay: kid-centric mash ups ‘sourmetal smell’, All Capital Letters for Emphasis, Re-Returning
- Conveying the surreal twin-connectedness – sometimes with actual whimsy
- So many layers – family roles & rebellion, caste system, modern Indian history/politics, abuse & impacts…but less intricate interplay than jumble of perspectives
- Listening with accents and all the unfamiliar (and oft similar) names – a challenge
- We forgot to discuss the title. Is it good? What could be better?
- The Big Reveals in the final chapter – too much, too late: affair, incest, murder/cover up.
- It won the Booker because it’s depressing and because reviewers want ‘artsy’ (are they bored with clarity?). Okay, okay…the writing is quite good in stretches.
Car Talk – south
- Kudos to Mary for driving the Giant SUV all the way home.
- Yes, it’s still dark way out here in the country. Esp. with the little moon sliver. No, we don’t have to fork off. No, we don’t recall/know how or why or if that bridge thing was higher on one side or even there last time.
- Who hosts in October? Katie? Liz will set straight.
- No November host/book picker. So…do we need another member? Who? Or can we devise a Random Title Picking Game – played in November for our January read?
- Saving the World & Getting Pregnant On Time – <<brush with eugenics deleted>>
- Who’s working more now than they intended to be 3 years ago…and why? Center stage: Mary. Close 2nd: Liz.
- Term limits >>> limited discussion
- Home by 10:15-ish. Thank you and goodnight.
August 2017: We meet at China Gourmet because Hostess Viviane has newly-freed birds of a feather coming to rest in her nest. Hooray & Amen!
All attending, save Sue. We missed you, Sue!
Houston, oh, Houston. We wish you well.
Chatter, actually a round up of great & fun news (shared w/ varying levels enthusiasm):
- the GOOD Harvey photos (Karen S’s grandson); middle name (Daniel), anyone???
- Kitty & the vegan wedding – a few plans not planned, but a grand result overall
- It’s raining jobs on Liz. It’s a tricky wicket.
- Karen C. is fully finished. Her perfect position is coming; bridge consulting gig ok
- Katie enjoyed the Project Run ALS events in NYC & beach (anyone wanna learn more or donate: https://fundraise.projectals.org/campaign/project-run/c123999
- Marie’s Robert’s girlfriend and co-condo owner is adorbs; they’re so happy!
- Mary’s Michael is ensconced in his fancy (?) NYC digs > he has a full BR wall!
- Shelley spilled everything (or was on the receiving end) and her hair remained perfect – as usual
- Viviane trumps all – we toasted to new life & freedom
After the great Zucchini Confusion we did a rather efficient job ordering delish entrees for all to share (including all food-etarian needs). Brilliant split of checks by booze and food, Liz. And Karen S for bringing Order By Number to the fore. Hooray for Lazy Susans (and the housemate of that lazy wench who invented the table spinner for us)
***NEWS*** The Official Chinese Menu Item is the Pineapple Triple Delight
The Importance of Being Earnest by Oscar Wilde
Karen C picked it because she’d read it, ‘her’ 2017 pick was swept out from under her (Hillbilly Elegy), it’s a classic, it’s easy to read on the beach.
- we liked it – it was the keystone for all witty repartee to follow
- the wordplay remains rather unique even today and the ironic twists, too
- intelligent banter movies & sitcoms owe this one (Philadelphia Story, Big Bang Theory); the modern versions have more layers & subplots, but this play is why
- Shelley did scenes in HS & recalled them so well = Fun!
- Some of us have seen it. Others heard it while reading (in a good, non-hallucinatory way). Others of us wished to be seeing it (over reading it) since SO much would be conveyed by skilled acting. Of course dialogue speed would be fierce, so reading first may be best after all
- now THIS is satire – such skewering of social norms and reversing of roles and vapidly astute (yes, really) changes of heart
- shout out for the pun: earnest/ernest
- Who knew of and who read the 4th act? Some of us. Definitely better without it. Good decision, Oscar
Dessert – Yummy chocolate cupcakes from Karen C’s neighbor who has a baking business with no name. With a chaser of Chinese Statement Cookies. Oddly amusing.
September Meeting @ Sue’s – most likely Sept. 23 or 24; book TBD (Viviane)
June 2017 Meeting @ Mary’s House
(small-but-mighty: Shelley, Liz, Karen C., Mary, Yours Truly)
- The Parkwood Res. Assoc. approves a Little Free Library (the $$$, too; nice one, Liz)
- stealing vs. taking without permission vs. absconding (Liz wants Mary’s glider)
- Grace C’s vocal chord spasm>steroids (Dr. Mom Team diagnosis+cure; drop the stethoscope)
- dog watching: running/borrowing Maisie, Matt’s in Greece (how long until Liz & Tim also own a dog?)
- good vs. legitimate reasons for missing book club – yes, there’s a difference
- 4th graders free in national parks – who scams the system? do park rangers care? if you can do it, it’s so worth it! Ask Karen C. for tips
- appreciating Mary’s and Kevin’s big backyard & access way
- small town moment: customer phone locked in at Sunflower’s; Ron just gives store key (Shelley was NOT leaving the meeting for such nonsense)
- crazy names: Precious, the hyphenated Queen sisters, etc. & names that simply cannot make a comeback (Mabel, anyone?)
- Karen C – a deluge of pink slips at over-reaching office; may the odds be in her favor, eventually (who wants to give up working at/from home?)
- email vs. verbal communication: who can/will read vs. who is lazy or perhaps avoiding the efficiency/specificity of writing it all down & responding
- swim team socials: keep it simple (or suffer). Do NOT ask Karen C. for tips.
- Writing a book: Volunteer Snafus. Chapter 1: the craft closet
- NYC – Michael Sing-Kirchner and his rental broker
- Firefly – no sleeping plan, but at least a sleeping bag? And change of clothes?
- Praise for Mary’s carrot salad! (started by Liz-who-hates-veggies)
- Kirstie is staying in Canada with a Big New Promotion: Director. Not bad, eh?
- Did some people miss book club b/c the book ‘scared’ them? (one person’s concern)
THE BOOK: Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
Liz picked the book because:
- Return to original goal of this club: read what you’d not otherwise pick for just yourself (classics/supposed to, different genre, etc.)
- Has her mom’s copy of the book from her old book shop jaunts with old boyfriend
- It’s on David’s List (son); he read it and did not seem to hate it
- very modern tone, pace and voice – how did Huxley do that from 1931?
- ‘1984’ usurped this title from most of our HS reading lists – a shame, really
- for the record: pneumatic means plump-ish (but not really)
- the new terms were fun; for the new-to-us terms, some of us wanted dictionaries
- story’s emphasis on different head sizes – was it a reflection of Huxley’s oddly large one? or just the clearest way to display genetic meddling
- Huxley visited the US in the post-WWI era; he found the society to be vapid…this showed up here, for sure
- genetics – pretty sophisticated prognosticating
- world building – so clever, but took some careful reading to get the full parameters; no spoon feeding of the reader, here (intentional? unlike the spoon-fed masses in the book? probably)
- The Savage (also, Christ figure): only person who could think for himself and had fairly even (depth, not time) exposure to Shakespeare, Native culture, traditional religion, and Society
- Head Controller also could think for himself; he chose power over autonomy (Savage did the opposite) – unfortunate choice (plot) that the Savage suffered while HC seemed not to…
- “Economy of Happy” – but is numb/middle-of-the-road the same as happy? no pain/no passion was the goal – was it working? maybe* (esp. with the pressure relieving islands for those who would not accept lack of individuality)
- *IF you ignore the soma addictions
- Ford/God – fun and prescient pun (at least in terms of automation-of-all)
- more predictive genius: media frenzy, paparazzi, fan-damonium, cruelty of public opinion/mob-induced-by-media
- was it racist? did the lower castes also all have dark skin?
- Names were fun puns: Lenina, Bernardo Marx
- was it more fun to discuss than read? 50/50 for some, yes for others
- Recommended: Huxley’s follow up (non-fiction); some books had it included
Mary’s July book pick: Circle the Sun by Paula McLain
Meeting at Karen C’s on Thursday, 7/20 at 7:20 – b/c we are just that clever.
May 31, 2017 @ Liz’s
(missing Mary; spewing ‘friendly invectives’ at Viviane for late cancel>>No Salad Crisis)
Chatter (Or w/all the good news, should this be Snaps?):
- Karen S: Christopher’s graduation & Montana trip!!! New grandbaby, Harvey!!! Bro married significant other of 16 years!!! Drop. The. Mic.
- Sue’s Utah trip. Pictures for miles! Almost too much to absorb. AND she resolved the No Salad Crisis!
- Karen C: passed all 4 CPA exams; hours done by end of June!!
- Kitty’s wedding news!! June 10th!! Getting ready: a repeat of worked with Barry (DC JP); uncomfy-yet-gorgeous shoes; vegan receptions require music…and alcohol
- Liz’s Savannah Wedding Adventure – location, food stations (fried chicken, shrimp & grits), DJ (better than live), so much dancing!
- New baby stuff – Bootleg gift to Karen S (The Story Book Knight + gift card); the new stuff is tricky but awesome…old car seat & stroller woes
- holding babies (infants): some of us love and some of us defer; point to ponder: wet nurse as ‘career choice’ (long ago…not now, silly)
- Our Wedding Stories – Marie’s drunk, sunburnt guests & JP @ Quaker Meeting House; Katie’s fainting & fab reception; Liz’s judge (Catholic/Jewish)>>Unitarian Church on Cedar Ln; Shelley’s Catalina Island & Ron’s white jeans w/Hawaiian shirt; Kitty (see above); anyone else?
- paper towels in lieu of napkins: grocery store faux pas or themed décor?
- Mountain Dew as center piece (nice one, Marie)
The Book: Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance
Shelley picked this book because:
- At the April meeting Marie mentioned a book and Vivian said something like, “I’m foreign & I know only a certain type of American.” This book presented something very un-20895. (If only Viv had been here…)
- Shelley’s mom’s husband started out a hillbilly and rose to mega success. The potential parallel was of interest.
- Some of us had childhoods with some similarities or had parents who lived this kind of life (albeit not in the same location) – so for some, this book was off-putting and for others it was intriguing/familiar; for others it was just alien
- sounds like Pat Conroy: sharing ‘his people’ and some similar milestones of personal development
- not stark, not lyrical; more family memoir than dense non-fiction sociological treatise = overall style engaging (or at least easy) to read
- the family had $100,000/year and still lived in disarray and squalor? It’s expensive to clean up civil & social fallout of addicts
- Vance’s point seems to be you can bootstrap and somewhere along the line it works thanks to important moments with key people (math at the table, books in the house, another place to stay)
- socio-economic status is major (less so than culture) & access to/use of education
- military = a saving grace
- surveys: totally bunk? usually the questions are so poorly structured, so YES
- some contentious exchanges on purpose or perceived tone of book – it seemed to boil down to how much anyone thought Vance was trying to push his personal experience and/or philosophy as a solution (as opposed to relaying his story). And if we liked/understood/abhorred what seemed to be his suggested solution options.
- enabling vs. enriching = the ultimate tricky balance when trying to help somebody (both personal and social program-wise)
- Is housing aid working? What about if public funds go to helping people move to where jobs are? Would they go?
- reminded some of us of The Glass Castle – (theme of using whatever you can to get ‘there’)…but not nearly so literary
- Marie shared Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) Questionnaire and Resilience Questionnaire. Some did not see themselves at all. Others saw self or parent with very high scores on both.
- agreement: the solution is closer to home than within top-heavy government; more community, less impersonal policy
Next Meeting: Mary’s house; Tuesday, June 27th at 7:15
Liz’s Pick: A Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
April 2017 Meeting @ Shelley’s House (we miss you, Karen C…)
- Liz’s NC property woes (wood rot)
- Day of the Book – good crowds, less well-known authors, lots of fantasy & kid books, Read to a Dog station, Poetry Tent (packed all day…who knew?), music
- Bethesda Lit Festival as Competition – meh: all indoors, spread out, 3 days, not family fun (true literati only?)
- T-shirts: self-printing iron-on = yes! w/a brief ‘remember when’ nod to puffy paint
- Velcro on the fireplace remote: Ron B Designs – available for hire (if you dare)
- Move stacks of wood or go to the gym = equal options (less driving for wood…)
- chimney sweeps – bad reps (except for Bert); yet needed 1x per decade, please…
- Viviane’s wrist PT: ‘distraction’ = LYING! SO painful. When the PT switches to Spanish you know the pain is coming. Marie concurs (for English-only), too.
- LONG DIVERSION – innocent start: Karen S, is there baby news? All too soon: Red Tent 2.0… we all have a story or two or more (and some TMI tendencies)
- Mary’s brother’s well engineered marching sign…weatherproof, too!
- wedding blues – Kitty’s daughter’s new mom-in-law WILL NOT host rehearsal dinner…bucking protocol not acceptable (wait…is she more Bootleg than we are?)
- Shelley’s ravioli spinach alfredo – a surprisingly light and delish delight! Ditto on Marie’s mini cheesecakes and hand-dipped strawberries. yum.
- Viviane and Shelley: founders of the George Clooney is Meh Club
The BOOK: The Possibilities by Kaui Hart Hemmings
Marie picked it because she was looking for library-available books. She liked The Descendants and the light and frothy Hemmings title was not available. Decided this was an okay option (beyond availability) because several Bootleggers are having hard times and this was a ‘meet you where you are in hard times’ book…maybe more of a fit for these moods/states of mind than something silly.
- a very real and close look at one version of grief
- unimaginable situation for parent – some of us ‘didn’t really want to go there’
- appealing characters and easy to connect with or at least recognize as ‘real’
- dialogue had nice flow; ditto speech mannerisms
- noticeably low on physical descriptions; Billy & Kit had a bit than others (this was preferred by most)
- Sarah’s return to work scenes were painful, real, amusing – Hemmings either knows that biz or interviewed somebody in it (NOTE to Jane Smiley: that’s how you do satire)
- Sarah’s dad: quirky funny mix of real Dad Behavior + solid albeit skinny thread of retirement choices theme
- some/many of the scenes/encounters were quite amusing, realistic or both
- some of us did not like being in main character’s head – esp. for so long
- book plot and ‘something else’ kind of fell apart at the 7/8 mark
- though some thought the ending was very good (go home and consult with your actual family about what to do)
- 1 (maybe more) suggested the ‘real’ problem – parental grief – was waylaid by the baby discussions; the first topic was sufficient for a book (and was not well resolved by the change of focus)
- too much drama of all sorts
- sex scenes were bad/dumb/purposeless and skip-worthy
- the slow roll out of Cully’s dad (Billy) as a solid person, good father was well done over the course of the book; nice, comforting thread
- parallels between Kit’s and Sarah’s lives were a bit too convenient
- the setting was not a character, but it was so key (in many good ways) to character arcs and plot points
- Suzanne and Sarah – their friendship had strong points, but was odd in some ways…and why did Sarah have to keep saying how it was almost a point of pride that neither of them expressed their true positive feelings for each other?
- some of us agreed this was written to become a movie; it rang falsely…not coming from the heart
NEXT BOOK: Hillbilly Elegy (Shelley’s pick; she has 4 copies to share)
NEXT MEETING: 7:!5 on May 31st @ Liz’s (who never would assign herself May…)